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8 Tips To Help You Stop Rushing 

We all know what it is like to race against the clock, like that time you almost missed your flight, or were stuck in traffic on your way to an 8 am meeting. But beyond those blue moon situations, most of us rush daily whether we realize it or not. Think about that to-do list you try to finish before the end of the day, or hustling to get to daycare pick up and not be the last parent to arrive. We rush because we have the perception that there is a shortage of time. When we feel pressed for time, we react by rushing so that we can get things done quicker. This reaction makes sense when time is running low; however we are…

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38 Positive Quotes to Improve Your Life 

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How to Build Good Habits 

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32 Words of Kindness for the Important People in Your Life 

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