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Student Loan Mistakes to Avoid

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There is a lot to talk about when it comes to student loans, so today I’m just going to speak from experience. I’M GOING TO UNWRAP ALL THE MISTAKES I MADE AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT THEM, AS WELL AS HOW TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY!  When I graduated high school, I could attend college for free. I lived with my mom and fell under her W2s. My biggest mistake was getting married 2 years later. This pushed me under my now ex-husband’s W2 and I was no longer eligible for free school. I had to take out a loan to finish my degree, so I took out $25,000 to cover my last 2 years of school. When I graduated, I got a job…

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